These days there is nothing unusual when you see an older woman and younger guy dating. Although this is something very common, the whole situation is still a sort of a taboo. Maybe that is what makes it so exciting.
For some guys cougar dating is a challenge and for others a way to satisfy their curiosity. Dating a cougar is exciting because they are confident, more direct about their sexual needs and have a higher sex drive than women in their twenties. However, many guys can’t handle a cougar. Here are some frequent mistakes men make when dating a mature woman.
You must learn to crawl before you learn to walk
Don’t assume that you are a cougar expert. The truth is many of them will turn you down before you master the skills of cougar dating. Don’t get discouraged, sometimes it won’t be anything personal. Maybe she is already in a relationship, having a bad day, sick or in a rush to somewhere important. Maybe you even remind her too much of her little brother. Be patient and don’t lose your hope.
Wasting your time and getting wasted
It will take you a ton of time to meet single women. You can go to a bar and spend hours searching for a single cougar. Maybe there won’t be any single women, maybe there won’t be any women that are interested in dating you, or maybe there won’t be any women at all, just a bunch of guys waiting for them to show up. Your time is precious, so don’t waste it on bar hopping. A huge number of single women, especially older women, have given up on the bars and made a profile on some of the cougar dating sites. Since every woman on these websites is looking for a young stud, you will save a lot of time.
It’s not all about the looks
Yes, cougars love younger guys because they are good looking and full of energy. However, you won’t win her over only with your muscular body. Cougars make their decisions primarily based on feelings, emotion and internal intuition. So if you want to score a mature lady, be confident, funny and proactive.
Leave the past in the past
If you had a bad experience with a cougar, it doesn’t mean the next one will be the same. You should know better than to hold any past bitterness against cougars you are going to find online. Erase any stereotypes you have against older women from your heart and be prepared for the next exciting journey.
Your bad boy charm won’t work
Yes, girls love bad boys. However, cougars are mature women who know what they won’t and who don’t tolerate any crap from guys. Arrogance, rudeness, and unreliability are characteristics you shouldn’t possess if you want to be a pro cougar dater.
All that she wants
Older women want strong younger guys who have high value and good character. You will not attract cougars if you are dependent or needy, have no self confidence or opinion of your own. Be fun and upbeat, proactive and understand women, and you will have no problem with dating cougars.